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But it was Sex and the City that instilled in us the notion that there was something a bit wrong with you if you didn’t want to have sex with somebody after a couple of cocktails and a dinner date.

Looming large in my mind to this day is the episode where Carrie starts dating Aidan.

But sometimes, with the right friends, in the right setting (with the right amount of wine), women will tentatively talk about it.In my experience treating couples and individuals, many hope that if they "play the game" correctly, their prince or princess will be the prize.But because playing a game necessarily translates into masking your authentic self, these rules cannot deliver the kind of genuine partnership on which true love is built.It’s not enough to say, “no thank you, not yet.” Rather, there is an overwhelming pressure to say, “no, because…” Sometimes, it feels easier to just lie back and think of England (or Benedict Cumberbatch).It’s not only women who've bought into the notion they need to explain if they wish to abstain. They’re convinced that if a girl hasn’t got her kit off three or four dates in, she’s simply not interested.

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